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Violence and abuse

  • Violence and abuse can happen in any kind of relationship. It is never OK.
  • Violence and abuse take many forms, not just physical.
  • If you or someone you know is experiencing violence or abuse, you can call 1800RESPECT on 1800 737 732, text 0458 737 732 or visit our website for online chat and video call services:
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What is violence and abuse?

Sexual, domestic and family violence can happen to anyone, regardless of the country they are from, religion, sexuality, gender, age, social background or culture.

It can also happen in any relationship, including with:

  • Boyfriends, girlfriends, partners, husbands or wives
  • Ex-boyfriends, ex-girlfriends, ex-partners, ex-husbands or ex-wives
  • Carers and paid support workers
  • People you work with
  • Parents, guardians and other family members
  • Adult children.

There are different types of abuse, and they are not always physical. Abuse is a pattern of behaviour, to gain power and control.

No matter what your relationship to someone is, sexual, domestic and family violence are never OK.

1800RESPECT can also assist with information on how to support someone who is experiencing violence and abuse, including options for professional support and safety.

Supporting someone can be difficult, so you can contact 1800RESPECT to seek support for yourself, whether you're a friend, family member or professional.

On these pages you will find information about sexual, domestic and family violence and the particular types of abuse that might be involved. You will also find information on how to support someone experiencing violence, as well as options for professional support and increasing safety.

If you or someone you know is experiencing violence or abuse, you can call 1800RESPECT on 1800 737 732, text 0458 737 732 or visit our website for online chat and video call services. 

There are different types of abuse, and they are not always physical. Abuse is a pattern of behaviour, to gain power and control.

Glossary: Key terms

Below is a list of key terms related to domestic, family, and sexual violence. They describe behaviours that can have serious outcomes for people affected by violence.

Listing them here shows a simple and easy to access format to help you recognise what you may be experiencing.

If you or someone you know is experiencing any of the below or are unsure of what you are experiencing, 1800RESPECT is available 24/7 to provide free and confidential support, information, and counselling.

Catfishing
Coercive control
Cyber flashing
Doxxing
Forced sterilisation
Gaslighting
Image-based abuse
Love-bombing
Sextortion
Stealthing
Technology-facilitated abuse
Spiritual Abuse
Visa Abuse
Forced Marriage
Social Isolation
Parental Alienation
Elder Abuse